Kiss boys two times after I have gone. Please teach the boys to say what they mean. Mummy loved orange Club biscuits jam & jelly & lemon curd. On her deathbed Kate Greenes only concern was for her two little boys Reef & Finn & her loving husband Singe. She knew shed be leaving them behind very soon. Over her last few days Kate created Mums List. The couple talked & cried together as she wrote her thoughts & wishes down trying to help the man she loved create the best life for their boys after she was gone. It wasnt the first time Singe & Kate had faced the spectre of death. Four years earlier doctors discovered a large lump in baby Reef s abdomen. Kate pregnant with Finn was so distressed that she gave birth dangerously early. Both boys pulled through but afterwards Kate received the diagnosis that every woman dreads.. .