We are all desperate of course to marry the right person But none of us ever quite does The fault isn't entirely our own; it has to do with the devilish truth that anyone we're liable to meet is going to be rather wrong in some fascinating way or another because this is simply what all humans happen to be
- including sadly ourselves Yet
- as this darkly encouraging & witty essay proposes
- we don't need perfection to be happy So long as we enter our relationships in the right spirit we have every chance of coping well enough with & even delighting in the inevitable & distinctive wrongness that lies in ourselves & our beloveds