Sex today seems too much like hard work. Magazines tell us we have to put more effort in & learn new tips. So how can we bring the playfulness back?
This issue of the Idler features an exclusive cover from Damien Hirst & an interview with Esther Perel, author of the best-seller Mating in Captivity. Michael Bywater condemns the rise of frantic sex. Neil Boorman asks whether he is the only one who