Diana Athill made her reputation as a writer with the candour of her memoirs now aged ninety & freed from any inhibitions that even she may once have had she reflects frankly on the losses & occasionally the gains that old age brings & on the wisdom & fortitude required to face death. This is a lively narrative of events lovers & friendships: the people & experiences that have taught her to regret very little to resist despondency & to question the beliefs & customs of her own generation.