Love matters. Whether its the romantic kind or the emotional bond between you & family or friends. Indeed latest research suggests that those who love & are loved are significantly more likely to be alive in 10 years time than those without love in their lives. Love makes us happy & the happier we are the longer it seems we tend to live. But it isnt always easy to love & be loved. Love is also complicated. Relationships are invariably complex & they need to be attended to nurtured worked at & invested in. Its all too easy to neglect relationships often without realising it & this benign neglect leaves you one day wondering why this special relationship has crumbled unravelled waned or lost its sparkle. Forming good relationships isnt easy either. Same sex relationships can be tricky enough (mothers & daughters brothers & brothers) but when its the opposite sex especially boyfriend/girlfriend) you have the added complication that the other person is wired completely differently & may see things in completely different ways. If you study people who are so good at relationships you discover its not about their personality or gender or how self sacrificing they are. Those who are great in all relationships usually do have to work at it the secret is that they know exactly where to put their efforts. They know The Rules of Love. In this book these Rules are revealed so you too can benefit from the simple principles of forming & sustaining strong enduring & ultimately life enhancing relationships.