In this rigorous & supremely honest book Alain de Botton helps us navigate the intimate & exciting -- yet often confusing & difficult -- experience that is sex. Few of us tend to feel were entirely normal when it comes to sex & what were supposed to be feeling rarely matches up with the reality. This book argues that 21st-century sex is ultimately fated to be a balancing act between love & desire & adventure & commitment. Covering topics that include lust fetishism adultery & pornography Alain de Botton frankly articulates the dilemmas of modern sexuality offering insights & consolation to help us think more deeply & wisely about the sex we are or arent having. One in the new series of books from The School of Life launched May 2012: How to Stay Sane by Philippa Perry How to Find Fulfilling Work by Roman Krznaric How to Worry Less About Money by John Armstrong How to Change the World by John-Paul Flintoff How to Thrive in the Digital Age by Tom Chatfield How to Think More About Sex by Alain de Botton