During our forties & fifties a large proportion of us will go through a period of struggle Children grow up jobs change & the things that used to make us happy don't necessarily work anymore Long-term relationships in particular can lose their shine leading to us feeling trapped misunderstood & without purpose People today are trying to make their marriages work over longer lives than ever before & it's not always easy In the brilliant transformative & optimistic The Rough Patch clinical psychologist Daphne de Marneffe explores the extraordinary pushes & pulls of midlife where our need to develop as individuals can crash headlong into the demands of our relationships De Marneffe uses her years of experience to address key problems that challenge us- money alcohol & drugs the stresses of parenthood sex extramarital affairs health aging children leaving home & dealing with elderly parents Blending research interviews & clinical experience & writing with wit & warmth she proposes a path to fulfilling ourselves both as individuals & partners during these difficult years