The Book of Forgiving written together by the Nobel Peace Laureate Archbishop Desmond Tutu & his daughter Revd Mpho Tutu offers a deeply personal testament & guide to the process of forgiveness All of us have at times needed both to forgive & be forgiven
- whether small everyday harms or real traumas But the path to forgiveness is not easy & the process unclear How do we let go of resentment when we have been harmed at times irreparably? How do we forgive & still pursue justice? How do we heal our hearts & move on? How do we forgive ourselves for the harm we have caused others? Drawing on his memories of reconciliation in post-apartheid South Africa Archbishop Desmond Tutu has identified four concrete steps to forgiveness through which we must all pass if we are to reach our destination 1) Admitting the wrong & acknowledging the harm 2) Telling one's story & witnessing the anguish 3) Asking for forgiveness & granting forgiveness 4) Renewing or releasing the relationship Each chapter contains reflections & personal stories as well as exercises for practising each step of the path The Book of Forgiving is a touchstone & tool for anyone seeking the freedom of forgiveness an inspiring guide to healing ourselves & creating a more united world