Mozart in the womb Baby Einstein DVD's for newborns & i-pad learning apps for toddlers From the moment the umbilical cord is cut today's parents feel trapped in a never-ending race to ensure their child is the brightest & the best But while it's completely natural for us to want our kids to reach their potential at what point does too much competition become damaging? With constant testing in schools also raising the stakes how can we tell when hot-housing children is actually doing more harm than good? In this ground-breaking & provocative book award-winning journalist & parenting author Tanith Carey presents the latest research on what this contest is doing to the next generation She explains why far from making our children more go-getting & successful it can back-fire with life-long repercussions damage their emotional well-being & fracture their relationships with the very people who love them most their parents In this essential manual for today's modern parent Tanith offers parents practical realistic solutions that will give them permission to take their foot off the gas & reclaim a more relaxed family life Packed with insights experts' tips real experiences & resources this book is a timely guide to safeguarding your child's well-being in a competitive world
- so they can grow into the happy emotionally balanced people they really need to be'I've hardly been able to put the book down as I turned each page I'd find something else that resonated with me Tanith has the ability to challenge your thinking without it being judgmental or preachy She shares lots of real life case studies & draws on her own experience as a parent & combines this with solid research to make a really readable book mummyfromtheheartcom 'A brilliant new parenting book filled with strategies for raising children's self-esteem & nurturing them & how to help children avoid burn out & stress I like how simple doable yet effective these strategies are I relished this book & I think it is really important Baby Budgetingcouk ' An impassioned book appealing to other parents to rethink all the relentless competitiveness
- before it's too late' Psychologies 'A highly readable well-balanced well-argued contribution to the rapidly-growing mountain of parenting books with plenty of practical achievable advice for anyone who wants to escape from the tiger race' Sue Palmer author of Toxic Childhood 'A fantastic new book by Tanith Carey which gives children back their childhood' Dr David Whitebread Senior Lecturer in Psychology of Education at Cambridge University ' The book is GREAT in a great tradition along with Madeleine Bunting's Willing Slaves & Sue Gerhardt's The Selfish Society & of course Kim Payne's Simplicity Parenting as critiques of society that also help us re-orient our parenting beautifully lucid & readable & definitely on the right track in terms of what kids need Steve Biddulph parenting author 'I could not stop reading! It is one of those books that from page one had me nodding & agreeing at every point' Shaheen Merali Families' Possibly the best book I have read in the parenting arena Insightful & thought-provoking it teaches you how to parent in a better more conducive way so that you stay connected to your child & see them for who they are
- not what they can do' Naomi Richards The Parenting Coach