'A beautifully written book Essential reading' John Humphrys' Carol Lee is a courageous writer This book is both tender & tough-minded in its record of one woman's day by day journey through a universal experience' Maggie Gee In a candid portrayal of the last years of her parents' lives Carol Lee confronts the sense of loss
- & longing
- at the heart of her family & perhaps all families They have often lived separately
- in the UK Africa Egypt & the Middle East her father's sudden illness & her mother's gradual memory loss bringing them together Returning with her brother as adult 'children'
- roles & boundaries between all of them changed
- guilt & anger play their part in the two & a half years which follow But Carol finds delight too in stories of her mother practising tango in the tiny kitchen of her childhood home & she is humbled by her father's courage Snowbound winters beach walks in Wales & African times are captured in this account of the turmoil of long-distance care Along the road back to a parent's house matters of memory identity grief
- & renewal
- are woven through four people's lives to reveal a rich legacy from the past