From Facebook's COO & Wharton's top-rated professor the 1 New York Times best-selling authors of Lean In & Originals a powerful inspiring & practical book about building resilience & moving forward after life's inevitable setbacks After the sudden death of her husband Sheryl Sandberg felt certain that she & her children would never feel pure joy again I was in the void' she writes a vast emptiness that fills your heart & lungs & restricts your ability to think or even breathe Her friend Adam Grant a psychologist at Wharton told her there are concrete steps people can take to recover & rebound from life-shattering experiences We are not born with a fixed amount of resilience It is a muscle that everyone can build Option B combines Sheryl's personal insights with Adam's eye-opening research on finding strength in the face of adversity Beginning with the gut-wrenching moment when she finds her husband Dave Goldberg collapsed on a gym floor Sheryl opens up her heart-and her journal-to describe the acute grief & isolation she felt in the wake of his death But Option B goes beyond Sheryl's loss to explore how a broad range of people have overcome hardships including illness job loss sexual assault natural disasters & the violence of war Their stories reveal the capacity of the human spirit to persevere & to rediscover joy Resilience comes from deep within us & from support outside us Even after the most devastating events it is possible to grow by finding deeper meaning & gaining greater appreciation in our lives Option B illuminates how to help others in crisis develop compassion for ourselves raise strong children & create resilient families communities & workplaces Many of these lessons can be applied to everyday struggles allowing us to brave whatever lies ahead Two weeks after losing her husband Sheryl was preparing for a father-child activity I want Dave she cried Her friend replied Option A is not available & then promised to help her make the most of Option B We all live some form of Option B This book will help us all make the most of it