Most books that want to change us seek to make us richer or thinner This book wants to help us to be nicer that is less irritable more patient readier to listen warmer less prickly Niceness may not have the immediate allure of money or fame but it is a hugely important quality nevertheless & one that we neglect at our peril This is a guidebook to the uncharted landscape of Niceness gently leading us around the key themes of this forgotten quality We learn how to be charitable how to forgive how to be natural & how to reassure We learn that niceness is compatible with strength & is no indicator of naivety Niceness deserves to be rediscovered as one of the highest of all human achievements