
Choosing a partner is one of the most consequential & tricky decisions we will ever make The cost of repeated failure is immense & yet we are often so alone with the search Partners used to be found for us by parents & society Now we are expected to follow our feelings
- & so locate people by ourselves according to intuition This should be an improvement but our emotions often pull us towards hugely problematic characters & dynamics How to Find Love explains why we have the 'types' we do
- & how our early experiences give us scripts of how & whom we can love The book provides a crucial set of ideas to help us make safer more imaginative & more effective choices in love