Is it in our best interest to compete or to cooperatesome have argued that humans are fundamentally competitive & that pursuing our self-interest is the best way to get ahead Others believe that we are hard-wired to cooperate & are most successful when we collaborate with others In Friend & Foe leading psychologists Adam Galinsky & Maurice Schweitzer draw on original cutting-edge research to explain why this debate misses the mark They argue that it is only by learning how to strike the right balance between competition & cooperation that we can improve long-term relationships & maximise success in work & life Galinsky & Schweitzer show how holding these two forces in the right balance can enable us to turn weaknesses into strengths to recognise deception & build trust & to improve our powers of negotiation without alienating our counterparts Along the way they also offer answers to a number of perplexing puzzles from how too much talent can undermine a team's success to why ending an auction at 2am can get you the best outcome to when acting less competently can help you gain status This book is a guide for better navigating your social world by learning when to cooperate as a friend & when to compete as a foe
- & how to be better at both