The No 1 New York Times bestseller on the secret to leading a good life We live in a Big Me culture universities & businesses alike reward goal-oriented superstars & those who self-promote are most likely to thrive But what does this say about us? David Brooks argues that our hunger for wealth & status is eroding our ability to create meaningful inner lives To show us how to live better he looks at people whose sense of humility was fundamental to their success What they all understood was a simple but counterintuitive truth in order to fulfil yourself you must learn how to forget yourself