In this remarkable book, Jane Miller writes about the experience of being a daughter & a sister, about the intensities of family life & the illuminations that come from the last days & death of parents. Relations offers a portrait of a record-keeping, middle-class kinship, beginning with her parents' long marriage, its mysteries & incompatibilities. Here are the tensions of belonging & yet not belonging to an English middle-class at once hospitable to difference & internally divided. More than two hundred years of English history are present in these portraits, which show the gradual emancipation of women, the effects of empire on family life & the importance to it of religion, education & money. It is the story of an evolution, of a move out of trade towards public service & the professions, & towards the dramas & family romance of recent times.