For some people, a disagreement with a loved one is a catastrophe, a sign that a relationship must surely be over, for others a heated discussion is a way of letting off steam, a way of ensuring that passion is kept alive. But what is 'normal' communication for couples? How can you get past the raised voices or silent disapproval, to listen & understand what is really being said by your partner? Relationships change over time, & the way we communicate does too. This practical, readable & sometimes humorous book, based on over 60 years cumulative experience from Relate, the marriage guidance experts, will help couples to break free of old patterns of behaviour & avoid using words as weapons when the going gets tough. It will help encourage upfront discussion rather than resorting to nagging, & will give you the skills you need to understand what your partner is really trying to say to you
- to bring discussion rather than confrontation back into your relationships.