Olympia Crawford Rubinstein has a busy legal career, a solid marriage, & a way of managing her thriving family with grace, humour & boundless energy. With twin daughters finishing high school, a son at Dartmouth, & a kindergartener from her second marriage, there seems to be no challenge to which Olympia cannot rise. Until one sunny day in May, when she opens an invitation for her daughters to attend the most exclusive coming out ball in New York