Here's the thing. You're after something sensible but you've been told that you sometimes look a bit menacing. Perhaps it's something to do with your black on black on black wardobe that you pair with dark shades & a cape. But who could say, really? Anywho, when it comes to your specs, you're looking for something a little warmer; less dramatic. How about our Calvin Klein 5350-060 The Grey Slender Frame glasses? Sure, they're a medium rectangle frame in matte grey metallic along the arms & a gorgeous CK stamp emblazoned along the side. But the fronts are a glistening sliver, which is entirely unassuming, right? Non-threatening, smart & nothing out of the ordinary. They could be the perfect (and low-cost) pairing to your cape-led ensembles.